How to Start Your Search: A Complete Guide
Beginning the search for your biological family can feel overwhelming. This comprehensive guide provides essential steps and resources to help adoptees navigate their journey to discovering their origins.
Step 1: Gather Your Documents
Start by collecting all available documentation related to your adoption:
- Birth certificate (original and amended versions if available)
- Adoption papers and court records
- Hospital records from your birth
- Any family photos or personal items from that time period
- Letters, notes, or documentation from your adoptive parents
Step 2: Submit Your DNA
DNA testing has become one of the most powerful tools for finding biological relatives. We recommend:
- Taking a DNA test through a reputable service
- Uploading your results to multiple DNA databases
- Submitting your DNA to Vinvar's specialized database
- Keeping your contact information updated
Step 3: Search Vinvar's Database
Our cases database contains verified information about adoption scandals and missing children. You can:
- Search by location, hospital, or time period
- Review cases similar to your situation
- Submit your own case information
- Connect with others searching in the same region
Step 4: Join Support Groups
You don't have to search alone. Connecting with others who share similar experiences can provide:
- Emotional support and understanding
- Practical advice and search strategies
- Connections to researchers and investigators
- Updates on new developments and success stories
Step 5: Prepare Emotionally
The search process can be emotionally challenging. Consider:
- Working with a therapist who specializes in adoption issues
- Setting realistic expectations for the search timeline
- Building a support network of friends and family
- Taking care of your mental health throughout the process
Important Reminders
As you begin your search, remember:
- Every search is unique – don't compare your journey to others
- Some searches take time – patience is crucial
- You have the right to know your origins
- The Vinvar team is here to support you every step of the way
Ready to Start Your Search?
Browse our cases database or contact our team for personalized support.